Love letters

February 28, 2011

Celebrating the last day of February, a month celebrating love, is a shout out to love letters.  While looking for photographers for a recent project, I stumbled upon Johnny Miller's site, a uber-talented photographer currently responsible for the gorgeous images coming out of the Martha Stewart Omnedia empire, not to mention work for Kate Spade, Target and loads more.   (Does he not have the Most American sounding name too?)  Here's his lovely image of letters his parents wrote each other before they fell out of love.  I don't know which is more powerful-what he wrote about them or his image.  I dare you not to tear up.   




Check out more images from his site. 



And here's the story, "My Parents Love Letters"

I remember the August afternoon sat me down to ask me what I would think if my parents were to divorce.  We were sitting on the top of the stairs in our house on Lawrence Avenue.   I know I would not be around for the inevitable and the first words that came to me were, "Whatever makes you both happy."  Three months later I moved to New York to start college. 

My parents first met around 40 years ago on Halloween night at the skating rink on Haskell and 23rd St in Lawrence, Kansas.  My father was stationed 25 miles away at Forbes Air Force Base in Topeka and had taken the trip into Lawrence dressed in a kilt, appropriate for a boy born in Glasgow.   My mom noticed him right away.  At the time my mother was 15 but lied to my father and told him she was 16. 

Around a year after they met, my father was sent to start his tour in Vietnam.  Hundreds of letters and reel-to-reel audiotapes would be mailed back and forth.   In June 1968, after my father returned from Vietnam, he invited my mother's family out to California to meet his family. 

After asking my grandfather if he could propose to his daughter,  he drove down to Huntington Beach in his father's car and asked my mother to be his wife.  She said "yes."   They planned to marry in June 1969 after my father completed his time in the United Stated Air Force.   He moved to Lawrence and they rented an apartment on the 700 block of Mississippi Street.   Then I was born in 1971, and my sister followed in 1974.

I can not remember now where I first discovered their love letters and tapes, but it was probably from my father's kit bag from Vietnam.  Recently, I asked my mom to ship some of them out to me.  She sat down, reread the letters, and cried for two hours.   She called my father and asked, "What happened to these two people?" 

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What to cook? It's hump day.

February 23, 2011

Mark Bittman-save me.  It's Wednesday and I don't know what to cook.  Now that my favorite New York Times Columnist is leaving his post as The Minimalist to head over to the ed -op pages to butt heads with politicos on food policy, he left a terrific column on his all time favorite 25 best dishes.  It's a must read and must print out for the midweek scramble. 
Or pick up a copy of his "How to Cook Everything"- a real  cookbook staple.  



Wednesdays just aren't the same without you, Mr. Bittman.   


80 flashbacks

February 22, 2011

Perhaps the telly was on a bit too long this weekend.  I stumbled upon TV Land old episodes and found myself laughing out loud.  They just don't make shows like this anymore.  Having grown up on the magic trio of Good Times (Dy-no-mite) .....



And the gang from What's happening! (Where's Shirley??)


And the best of the best.... Redd Fox on Sanford and Son (Hey Lamott), it's hard to be satisfied with say.... One Tree Hill.




Best bet of the day??  I found the trio for sale on amazon.


Oh I miss you so, Mr. Foxx.   Check out all the tee shirts and find your favorite.  


Doesn't get better than this!






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In Honor of all the Presidents

Celebrating President's Day with another snow fall. 
Very pretty... but isn't it time for it to stop??




What did George Washington not do?  At age 16 he wrote a terrific book on manners.  And it's also the only one he ever wrote.  Here it is... 





In honor of The Duke's 100th birthday, I thought it was only appropriate to show this picture of Mrs. Nancy Reagan on Mr. T's lap at the White House circa 1983.   Sigh. The power of Mr. T and the rest of the A Team. "I pity the fool who ...."




And a plug for Jimmy Carter's Habitat for Humanity, an organization near and dear to my heart. What's not to love?  



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Happy Valentine's Day

February 14, 2011

Say it with jewelry, like this sweet gold number from Caro.  



Dress for it



Say it with Art like Sally  Benedict's work on paper. 




Say it with a cake like this one from Bakerella.






Say it with flowers such as this huge bouquet of Baby's Breath from Rosenow Floral Design.  Great idea, right? It's usually the first thing I remove from flowers sent my way but all group together in a mass, it's quite stunning. 





Write it.   
Doesn't get much more simple yet sweet than these notes from Paper Source.  



But by all means, celebrate it.  

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For the love of Camilllas

February 11, 2011

I have a special place in my heart for Camellias.  


These shrubs and small trees flowers come in a wide range of colors, are easy to care for and really take on a life of their own in late winter when the eye is craving life... and color... There's over 250 varieties of this fantastic flower.




Coco Channel was charmed by this lovely flower which she turned into a flower pin that became part of her signature look and is now sold in retail stores around the world.


And they continue to inspire the designers at the House of Channel.  
Channel flats from the Spring 2010 collection. 




The New York Times recently wrote a wonderful article on a camellias preserve in the south.  Interested? Read more here


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Special Touch

Last week I had Sunday Supper at my talented friend, Charlotte Sawyer's home.  In anticipation of Valentine's, she made a delicious casserole topped with homemade biscuits in shapes of biscuits.  Her lunch guests weren't sure which to do first-eat or take pictures.  This lovely dish created a universal "ahhhh" from the table and set the tone for a special meal.  Her efforts did not go unappreciated.



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The Gift of Flowers

Earth Laughs in Flowers. 

Ralph Waldo Emerson










Inspiration from some of my favorite florists:
BirchSF.com, Nicolettecamille.com, Jerry Sibal for Kate's Paperie, Belle Fleur


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Love

So many ways to say it.  


Rubber Stamp, Paper-Source





Handz shop on Etsy





Banquet shop on Etsy









yumalune on Etsy




bernolli on Etsy


All we need is Love... 

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For the love of Pink


For a pink lover, this is a great time of year.  Pink shows up all over (all thanks to Valentine's Day) and brings me joy with every spotting.  As an unabashed pink fan, I think the perfect pink is the one in a Camilla like this.....
But rarely meet a pink that I can't appreciate. 





House Beautiful's February issue won me over with my favorite hue taking center stage. Here's a modern take on pink. Doesn't it pair with brown mid century furniture unexpectedly well? 


This room (which they ran as the cover) just makes me smile.  I love the zig zag gold chair and velvet rose chair mixed with cotton candy pink walls.  Just perfect. 




And not to be left undone, I love this sassy outfit that just dreams "welcome to the party".  Where did this gal get her tights?  



And how great is this magenta suit from Zara's new Spring Line.  I heart this.


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Best in Show

February 8, 2011

Ok, small space dwellers.... I found a product for us!  New for this Spring/Summer is a dual planter meets grill from Black & Blum.  Crazy sounding, I know, but it works.

Here is a shot of a rosemary herb plant in a familiar traditional pot but see the hole at the bottom?  That is where the tongs for the grill are kept.  The top of the planter comes off and the grill appears for sudden barbecuing on the patio.



With the top off, it looks like a small charcoal grill.  During the week, it gives beauty as a planter and on the weekends, it can become grilling central.  Isn't this great?



This company has other really unique products. Here are 2 other faves.  One coming out in May is the grown up "lunchbox".  It's got everything you need for lunch with a handle, to boot, all for $24.


This dish dryer folds down and is flexible to hold your best glass upside perfectly.  It's also got that modern design vibe so it doesn't feel like your mom's version.   



Keep your eye on this smart company as they are on the rise.

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